Guide to Milking and Prostate Stimulation
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One intriguing way for individuals with prostates to experience better orgasms is through prostate stimulation, often referred to as milking. This practice involves massaging the prostate, a small muscular gland located a couple of inches inside the rectum. When done correctly, it can lead to intense and hands-free orgasms, often described by those experienced, as some of the most powerful, deep, and full-bodied they have felt. When combined with the benefits of our CBD Suppositories Mello Bottoms, a new dimension of pleasure can be achieved.
Unfortunately, not everyone has this spot ready to be stimulated. Only cisgender men and individuals assigned male at birth have prostates. But, everyone can explore and enjoy the pleasures of prostate stimulation. Whether you're the one receiving or giving, the journey to discovering this unique source of pleasure is open to all.
The prostate is located inside the rectum, you do need to go inside the anus a couple of inches. It feels like a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. Important to also note that it does not always require direct stimulation, the prostate can also be reached indirectly through the perineum. The perineum is the thinner section of skin beneath the scrotum and the anus opening, gently probing this or stimulating this can also provide deep pleasure.
When aroused, the prostate swells, and the sensation may vary depending on whether it is stimulated from the outside or inside. Working with a partner or solo, it is important to explore both stimulation spots —inside and outside— so you can understand each unique sensation.
Stimulating the Prostate from the Outside:
This is done through perineum stimulation: You want to feel between the penis shaft and the anus opening for the softer and fleshier skin closer to the anus. You may not be able to actually feel the gland, but touching it will likely cause the sensation of needing to pee. Do not be alarmed this is good, and this tells you that you are in the right spot. Stimulate this with licking, sucking stroking, flicking, or toys. There really is no rule. You want to touch this in a way that brings you enjoyment.
Stimulating the Prostate from the Inside:
From the inside, you want to insert a lubricated finger and feel around for a fleshy bulb of tissue on the front wall of the rectal lining. When we say front wall we mean the wall that is closest to the balls. Some people can find it easier cupping the balls slightly and then inserting the fingers in like a come hither motion. It does feel different from the other tissue in there, and with a bit of patience can be located. When stimulated it will enlarge and be easier to find - feel around for something no larger than a walnut. Again as with external stimulation, there really is no rule. You want to touch this in a way that brings you enjoyment.
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This is completely individual to each person, and each person's knowledge of their own pleasure. Be patient and take your time, solo play could be a better avenue to start if you feel performance pressure with your lover/partner. The potential for a mind-blowing experience exists and is available to you, but you need actual experience, experimentation, and patience to discover what feels best.
These can be similar to orgasms achieved through penis stimulation but deeper and much more intense. The sensation comes from deep inside the body and so is much more internal, rather than a surface sensation. Some people can have multiple small orgasms, over and over again, some can experience more mind euphoria and intimacy.
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This could be easier if you think about also gently cupping the balls with the palm of your hand, or allowing them to rest on your wrist. Insert your lubed finger(s) into the rectum up to about your knuckles, and move your fingers inside in a 'come hither' motion. Allow the tip of your fingers to gently stroke the prostate, stroke upwards towards the belly button, from the inside. Keep stroking, gradually building speed until the pressure builds and the receiver orgasms.
This is external. Using the pads of your finger(s) gently press the perineum as you would if you were ringing a doorbell, longer and deeper pushes. Alternate the pressure and the intervals between the "rings" to locate what works. You can also use this technique when penetrating the anus with your fingers, but you would push the perineum with the flat pad of your palm. Essentially combining the doorbell and the come hither motions.
Instead of stroking the prostate directly, you massage in circles around it clockwise and counterclockwise in teasing rotations. Never actually making direct contact. Depending on the individual direct stimulation can be too intense so this gentler motion where you circle your way around the entire perimeter of the gland can also work. Alternate the pressure and speed allowing the pleasure to build up.
Using a massager, sex toy, or vibrator massage the prostate internally, or massage the perineum externally. Play with the multiple speed, pressure, depth, and pulse settings and find the flow that works. This can be intense, so often is better used when the receiver is closest to orgasm.
This is also very useful when you are exploring your prostate through solo play. Testing the limits of your flexibility can be tricky when you are using your fingers or hand. But using a toy, especially one you can operate from your phone, does allow a deeper pleasure when you are in a more relaxed position.
If your partner has a penis, they can take the prostate stimulation a little further and penetrate you, the head of the penis will naturally stimulate the prostate, upon entry and stroking allowing you both to reach climax.
Beyond the pleasure aspect, there are potential health benefits associated with prostate massage. While the evidence is somewhat limited, some suggest it may help improve erectile dysfunction, alleviate painful ejaculation, improve urine flow, and even contribute to managing symptoms of certain prostate conditions.